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Hi hi,
I like diapers, I like the feeling, what it mean, the warmth, the memories, the soothing, but when I do it alone all that goes away. I mean if I dont have someone to share it with, its kinda meaningless. Like putting a diaper myself vs someone puting it on me is worlds apart. I've seen lots of post here of you people wearing it in your daily life, and now Im wondering if im a real DL, cause you seem way more into it than me, when im more into the relationship, and the shared moment. Dunno if that make sense.
I was wondering if there was others like me.
DLPeakOut
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Hi I am definitely DL and have been all my life but I have never shared this side of me with anyone except very selective sites such as this one. I have to admit I never needed someone else to be with me as I am very DL content in myself.
littleph0enix
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Pretty sure that if you enjoy the moment mainly when your with others/ other and not so much when alone that just means you are more little/ AB than a DL.
Not to say your not a DL since being little does not have to involve diapers at all but since you do like them and don't seem to talk about being little I would say you still are a DL (just not as much as others who have a fetish for it or just for the enjoyment of it).
In the end is there a need to put yourself in a box full of titles/ labels? If you enjoy it just have fun, if not maybe just don't do it as much (or at all if you are just not feeling it )
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littleph0enix said:
Pretty sure that if you enjoy the moment mainly when your with others/ other and not so much when alone that just means you are more little/ AB than a DL.
Not to say your not a DL since being little does not have to involve diapers at all but since you do like them and don't seem to talk about being little I would say you still are a DL (just not as much as others who have a fetish for it or just for the enjoyment of it).In the end is there a need to put yourself in a box full of titles/ labels? If you enjoy it just have fun, if not maybe just don't do it as much (or at all if you are just not feeling it
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I enjoy being AB a lot too, its a whole experience. And I was not so much trying to put me in a box, but more wondering if I was "legitimate" here.
Like I dont recognize myself in most of the post here. Feeling out of place, thats all.
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For me my DL side is very private when it comes to wearing during daily life,sure it would be great if someone could change my diapers .
It was my AB side which was looking for other people to share it with wether that be a care giver or friend. Not really one way of being this or that, we are each going to get/want something diffrent out of ABDL.
littleph0enix
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Sweetcam said:
I enjoy being AB a lot too, its a whole experience. And I was not so much trying to put me in a box, but more wondering if I was "legitimate" here.
Like I dont recognize myself in most of the post here. Feeling out of place, thats all.
Ah I see, I think everyone that is not as full on as has a fetish with it wonders if they really fit in/ are legitimate as you say .
I would say most posts are made generally by the same kinds of people so if your not the same ish it's not odd to feel out of place, I'm pretty sure the kind of people like you are just more relaxed and happy with their current self without the need to post about stuff that often. (Or maybe they like to just keep to their self? Anyway there is a big % of people that just like to look around than get too engaged
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Sweetcam said:
Hi hi,
I like diapers, I like the feeling, what it mean, the warmth, the memories, the soothing, but when I do it alone all that goes away. I mean if I dont have someone to share it with, its kinda meaningless. Like putting a diaper myself vs someone puting it on me is worlds apart. I've seen lots of post here of you people wearing it in your daily life, and now Im wondering if im a real DL, cause you seem way more into it than me, when im more into the relationship, and the shared moment. Dunno if that make sense.
I was wondering if there was others like me.
I am gonna second on the careful about boxing yourself in with the labels - think of them as more of road signs along a journey that help you know what you are getting close to so that you can identify and relate better
Your post seems to focus on the importance of in person relationship to go with your diaper wearing. That really can be a pure DL trait or a little AB mixed in. I changed a DL who thoroughly enjoys the experience but doesn't really go into "little space" - it is more of a non-AB caregiver appreciation. Like I am doing a duty and being caring and respectful during it. So the receiver of that care giving can have all the feel goods because a "need is being met." Add in all the fuzzies you get from diapers themselves and you are in bliss buddy!
Does that help explain some of your feelings?
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Sweetcam said:
Hi hi,
I like diapers, I like the feeling, what it mean, the warmth, the memories, the soothing, but when I do it alone all that goes away. I mean if I dont have someone to share it with, its kinda meaningless. Like putting a diaper myself vs someone puting it on me is worlds apart. I've seen lots of post here of you people wearing it in your daily life, and now Im wondering if im a real DL, cause you seem way more into it than me, when im more into the relationship, and the shared moment. Dunno if that make sense.
I was wondering if there was others like me.
I wouldn't worry too much about the labels. Whether you want to call it AB or DL a lot of people here seem to be more interested in it as something they do with other people as part of a relationship. I'm personally more interested in just wearing diapers but I don't think it's really necessary to have microidentities to exactly describe every possible way people can relate to this stuff.
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Sweetcam said:
Hi hi,
I like diapers, I like the feeling, what it mean, the warmth, the memories, the soothing, but when I do it alone all that goes away. I mean if I dont have someone to share it with, its kinda meaningless. Like putting a diaper myself vs someone puting it on me is worlds apart. I've seen lots of post here of you people wearing it in your daily life, and now Im wondering if im a real DL, cause you seem way more into it than me, when im more into the relationship, and the shared moment. Dunno if that make sense.
I was wondering if there was others like me.
I mean, finding relationships (figuring you're younger than I ma0 is pretty straightforward. Finding a partner who shares the same interests will be more difficult BUT! I HIGHLY recommend focusing first and foremost on a partner you REALLY like and want to be with rather than one you have nothing in common with outside of "kink". Find someone you love and then see if you can't get them to be open and participate in your kink, possibly even join in with you!
I see you're female, so I PROMISE YOU there's a million guys probably sending you private messages trying to hook up. IGNORE kink, at first! Focus on someone you have a genuine connection with , a genuine desire to be with all of the time. Someone you miss when you're not together. EVERYONE I ever heard of that dated/married because they shared the same kind has found they rushed into the relationship as they were blinded by ONE similar interest, and later discovered they have nothing else in common.
You may very well discover you meet someone you like/who likes you who is open minded and willing to participate in your fantasies, even if that's not all of the time. You will be INFINITELY more happy if you love the person you're with compared to stuck in a bad relationship.
If I can be of help, feel free to message me. I only wish I knew what I know today when I was young!!!! WOW would I had done some things differently.